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🍂 Fall Aromatherapy Rituals: Immune Support with Thyme Tea + Free Printable Card
Feeling drained as the seasons shift? Discover how a simple aromatherapy ritual with thyme, honey, and essential oils can boost your immunity and mood this fall. Includes a peek at this week’s printable ritual card.
Elena Zhidkova-Rice
Aug 252 min read


I’ve Switched Emails – Here’s Why You Might’ve Missed My Weekly Rituals
I’ve switched to a professional email, and some of you may have missed my recent Weekly Rituals because of it. Here’s what changed, how to stay connected, and why it matters—especially with my Fall Aromatherapy Ritual Series starting tomorrow.
Elena Zhidkova-Rice
Aug 241 min read


10 Self-Discovery Questions + Aromatherapy Ritual for Reflection
The better you know yourself, the stronger your relationships can be. This 20-minute self-discovery ritual combines journaling with aromatherapy — plus, a free printable worksheet to guide your reflections.
Elena Zhidkova-Rice
Aug 202 min read


Know Yourself First: 10 Self-Discovery Questions for Stronger Relationships
This bonus post from my Wake the Silence series offers 10 self-discovery questions to help you understand yourself more deeply — and connect more authentically with your partner. Includes a free printable reflection worksheet.
Elena Zhidkova-Rice
Aug 192 min read


Newsletter Companion #5: The Relationship Game That Reveals Your Silent Rules 💬
Every couple has silent rules about love, moods, and honesty — until they cause hurt. In this week’s Wake the Silence, discover a gentle question game to explore love languages, emotional space, promises, and conflict, plus a free printable guide to spark deeper connection.
Elena Zhidkova-Rice
Aug 181 min read


The Evening Aroma Ritual That Restores Calm (Newsletter Companion)🌙
Discover the Evening Aroma Brushing Ritual 🌙 — a simple daily practice with essential oils to calm your mind, ease fatigue, and restore natural shine to your hair.
Elena Zhidkova-Rice
Aug 181 min read


Wake the Silence #5: Our Relations
A gentle relationship exercise to uncover the silent rules that shape love — about gifts, moods, honesty, and conflict. Wake the Silence #5 turns these hidden expectations into a playful, eye‑opening conversation for couples.
Elena Zhidkova-Rice
Aug 182 min read


The Morning Aroma Ritual That Changes Everything 🌿
This week’s Aromatherapy & Rituals newsletter shares my favorite 10-minute morning practice for clarity and calm. The Morning Aroma Ritual uses just a drop of essential oil and a little intention — and it can change the way you start your day.
Elena Zhidkova-Rice
Aug 141 min read


6 Love Language Questions Every Couple Should Ask
Unspoken rules about how we give and receive love can cause quiet misunderstandings in relationships. These 6 love language questions help couples talk openly about gifts, surprises, and daily connection — building trust, closeness, and understanding.
Elena Zhidkova-Rice
Aug 131 min read


Newsletter Companion with this week Wake the Silence #4 — The Clothes We Wear for Love
Love rarely fades in a storm — it slips away in the quiet, everyday moments when we stop noticing each other. In this week’s Wake the Silence, I explore how clothes, appearance, and self-care shape connection, desire, and respect in relationships. You’ll find three thought-provoking prompts from the Family Questionnaire and a peek into the deeper questions I share exclusively with my newsletter subscribers.
Elena Zhidkova-Rice
Aug 111 min read


Wake the Silence #4: How Clothes and Self-Care Strengthen Your Relationship
“When was the last time you noticed what your partner was wearing — or how you looked in their eyes? In long-term love, small choices in clothes and self-care can quietly deepen connection… or let it fade. Here’s how to keep showing up for each other, every day.”
Elena Zhidkova-Rice
Aug 111 min read


7 Sentences to Finish Together: A Playful Game to Rekindle Closeness
A lighthearted 7-sentence game to help couples reconnect, surface unspoken feelings, and turn irritations into curiosity.
Elena Zhidkova-Rice
Aug 91 min read


The Hard Questions Couples Avoid About Intimacy
Most couples never ask these questions about intimacy — yet avoiding them is what creates distance. Here’s how to begin talking, gently but honestly.
Elena Zhidkova-Rice
Aug 61 min read


Wake the Silence #3: The Quiet Death of Desire in Marriage
We’ll talk about parenting. We’ll talk about bills. We’ll even talk about betrayal. But sex? The quiet death of desire? We stay silent. Over time, touches stop, kisses fade, and intimacy turns into duty. This silence doesn’t protect love — it quietly kills it. In this reflection, I share my own truth, the questions we avoid, and why facing them might be the first step to bringing closeness back.
Elena Zhidkova-Rice
Aug 43 min read


When Anger Rises: Calming Your Body and Protecting Your Love
When anger rises in love, safety feels far away. This practical guide blends breathwork, calming rituals, and essential oils to reset your body and reconnect with your partner — part of the Wake the Silence series on intimacy and healing.
Elena Zhidkova-Rice
Jul 313 min read


Two Ways to Stay Connected: Weekly Newsletters Are Here
Two weekly newsletters are now live — Aromatherapy Rituals for calming daily stress and Wake the Silence for honest talks about relationships and intimacy. Choose one or follow both, and get support that fits the season you’re in.
Elena Zhidkova-Rice
Jul 301 min read


Wake The Silence #2: Loyalty and Betrayal
Assumptions about loyalty turn into landmines. Couples rarely define betrayal — until someone crosses an unspoken line.
Elena Zhidkova-Rice
Jul 283 min read


Wake The Silence #1: The Kids Know Their Mom And Dad Are not in Love
Kids notice more than we think — the silence at dinner, the lack of eye contact, the missing laughter. When we stay in broken relationships “for the children,” what are we really teaching them about love?
Elena Zhidkova-Rice
Jul 282 min read


Prelude: We Teach Sex, Not Love — And It’s Breaking Us
We teach sex, not love — and it’s breaking us. Growing up in Russia, intimacy was hidden in silence. Moving to America, I saw openness about sex but little about emotional connection. This post explores why teaching love, boundaries, and presence matters as much as protection — and how this silence shapes relationships across generations.
Elena Zhidkova-Rice
Jul 284 min read


Sleeping Through Emotion
By Elena Zhidkova-Rice Some nights, sleep doesn’t come because the body is tired. It slips away because the heart is heavy. Because the...
Elena Zhidkova-Rice
Jul 182 min read
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