By Elena Zhidkova-Rice

A Simple Game to Break the Silence

Most couples assume they already know everything about each other — until distance creeps in. The quiet irritations. The unspoken wishes. The moments you stop asking questions.

This playful 7‑sentence game helps you notice each other again — gently. No heavy talks, no lectures. Just curiosity, play, and honesty.

How It Works (Quick Overview)

• Each partner answers 7 prompts separately (no peeking).

• Swap answers and talk about them gently — to understand, not criticize.

• Treat it like a ritual: playful, curious, safe.

(Tip: Choose a calm moment — not during conflict — and treat it like a mini date.)

A Glimpse of the Prompts

• Most of all, I value in you…

• Often, these things irritate me in you…

• You would like me to…?

The full list helps uncover hidden assumptions, highlight strengths, and turn irritations into connection.

Why It Works

• Surfaces what we each value (and guess) about one another

• Opens conversations about irritations before they build up

• Reminds partners of good qualities often overlooked

• Transforms conflict into curiosity and play

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